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New England Dungeon Society Boston Sex Club Review

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INTRODUCTION:

It's great that more and more of the world is embracing the coming out of gays and lesbians, but it's been a slightly stranger road for those in the BDSM community, although to some degree, they like it that way. It's not that people who like 'Bondage-Domination-Sadism-Masochism' are ostracized or persecuted, but it's certainly something that most participants like to keep hidden, even from their friends and family. I wondered if there was something kind of wrong with me, when I wasn't enjoy 'ordinary' sex that much, and had a lot more desires about domination and submission that I thought were wrong to have.

So for me the internet was my knight in shining armor, showing me that many people had the same fantasies, and that there were entire communities that embraced them. And the one that I ended up joining outside of my computer was the New England Dungeon Society. If you live in Boston or beyond, and are interested in the BDSM lifestyle, I can't think of a better community to become a part of.

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ABOUT:

The New England Dungeon Society has been around for over twenty five years, and they have done an incredible job at bringing hundreds of people together over that time to share their love of similar kinks and fantasies. And yes, while there are certainly events in rented spaces where you can act like a master dominating their slave, or being strung up from the ceiling by rope, there's a lot more to the community than that. To join only costs $30 per year (or $45 if you're a couple), and there really is a push to get to know the other members in a more casual setting than in the proverbial dungeon.

You're actually encouraged to go to 'munches' (the BDSM community term for non-BDSM events) like picnics and movie nights to not only talk with veterans to learn more about kinks and certain fantasies, but to see if you would actually be comfortable with playing with these people in actual scenes. And if you're new or just curious, they also have a wealth of classes available for you to participate in (and if you're a member, it's a reduced price), ranging from 'pain processing' to 'foot play', and even 'writing erotica'. It means you have a lot of opportunities to broaden your range of kinks, so that you can not only indulge in your own, but helps others with their fantasies as well.

FEATURES:

-a support and social group for all people interested in BDSM and pansexual activity in the New England region

-has been in existence for over twenty five years

-event takes place throughout the New England region, typically in rented halls or private clubs

-age restriction for membership and participation is eighteen years or older

-throughout the year they hold seminars, workshops and social events for members and guests

-as an all-volunteer group, membership fees and ticket sales are essential to keep the society running smoothly

-membership is $30 per year per person ($25 for renewal), and $45 per year per couple ($40 for renewal)

-advantages for members ranging from getting into certain events for free, discounts at certain adult boutiques, and immediate admission to workshops and classes

-classes are typically held in hotel conference rooms, which means play is extremely limited, and that vanilla (non-BDSM) dress is expected

-many event through the year which can range from introductory picnics (where you can chat with veteran members about the BDSM lifestyle) to kinky holiday parties

-plenty of non-BDSM events occur through the year with the community like paintball, comedy and movie nights, etc.

-website is extremely useful at providing additional information to members and non-members about BDSM, as well as providing updates for upcoming events and parties

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CONCLUSION:

Finding your kink is a lot more than just experiencing that feeling of sexual arousal and release (although it is pretty amazing), but finding yourself as well. These are the sorts of things that can help define you as a person, and it's great that the New England Dungeon Society understands this. By bringing it out slowly in you through early meets ups and introductory classes, you are essentially built up within the community so you can properly explore your fantasies. Some of the people closest to me now are ones I've met over the last few years here, because we share a bond that much of the world is completely ignorant of or uninterested in.

While it might be a bit frustrating for newcomers who might join just looking for a bit of fun for a weekend or something like that, those who really make an effort to participate over a longer period of time will certainly be rewarded. The New England Dungeon Society guarantees it.

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Pros
  • For wanting to tie you up and smack you with a cane or make you crawl around while leashed, the New England Dungeon Society is awfully friendly when they first get to know you. I was actually impatient at first, annoyed at having to meet at a dinner get-together just to find out that we weren't going back to a dungeon or whatever after we paid the bill. For me, the quickest myth I had dispelled was that everything was about feeding your kink, whatever it was. The more important thing was building trust and familiarity with the people you will be playing with. Only after that can you're desires really be met.

    Since then, I've really wised up, and I mean that literally, because I've really enjoyed taking several of the classes that the Society offers, even if it's outside my own interests. I wasn't much for foot play, but the class was very illuminating and a lot of fun. The organizers have been around for over twenty five years, and that means they have many connections with BDSM experts and teachers throughout the country, so they're able to bring in the best of the best to give us the lowdown.

    The fact that it's only $30 to join is great. It's an amount that can attract a lot of curious people that might not have bothered if it was hundreds of dollars. I also like the fact that they have 'Reciprocal Organizations' listed on their webpage, which really just mean partnerships with other BDSM communities across the country. The idea being if you were travelling and wanted to get your kink on in another city, you'd be welcome with open arms if you were already a member of the New England Dungeon Society.

Cons
  • As they state on their website, this is not a dating service, but a community that you are expected to participate in through various ways, not just indulging in your own type of play. That means first off that it's not like hiring a dominatrix or submissive, where you are paying them for an hour of whatever you want, and it certainly not a place to come if you're interested strictly in sex. While there are certainly some people who are polyamorous and are in open relationships, this isn't a swinging club, either. In fact, one of the first things you learn is that BDSM in general doesn't involve traditional sex acts like penetration or even oral sex. The pleasure you get is almost exclusively through the kinkier side of play, so if you want something more vanilla in your swinging, this place isn't it.

    On a more practical note, having always changing event locations can occasionally be frustrating, especially as the New England Dungeon Society, doesn't just cover Boston, but the entire region. Sometimes you can't work it into your schedule to drive across the state for a two hour class on ropes and handcuffs.

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