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How To Be The Man Women Are Attracted To

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Attraction happens on two levels: physical and mental but often mental has a bigger influence when it comes to hookup dating. If a woman is mentally uninterested in you then this will affect whether or not she will find you sexually attractive and if she wants to sleep with you. To appeal to women you want to make sure that you are engaging them mentally as well as physically. To do this, it is important to know how to make a good first impression so that they will not forget you. Encourage her to want to get to know you better and chase you a little bit but it is important not to concentrate solely on yourself. The point of this encounter is to create a conversation. You want to make sure that you are engaging with her on multiple levels.

To be the man women are attracted to you need to be confident in yourself. EasySex.com has other guides to help you be more confident but the first step is to believe that you are important and worthy of love. It is an old belief that you need to love yourself before you can love others and this is also true if you are looking to hook up with women. Self-improvement is the way to attract women. If you believe in yourself, are content with your life, then it makes you seem more confident and happy which appeals to women who want a man who has ambition but is also settled. A man who is still trying to figure things out or who is not ambitious is going to be a lot of work. The thing that women find most attractive is stability. They want a man who knows what he is doing and is someone that she can depend on, even for hookup dating. The modern woman is looking for a partner, someone who can pick up the slack and support them if they need it and that is the type of impression you want to leave them with.

Learn How To Listen

Active listening is very important when it comes to attracting women. Often, women feel neglected or looked over in their lives and when they find someone who is really listening to them and engaging them, it makes an impression. When you notice her sitting alone at a bar, immediately go over to her, slowly smiling. This makes you look more genuine and confident. Do not feel intimidated if she is with a group of friends. Women often bring their friends with them for safety. All you need to do is go over to her, apologizing for interrupting and compliment her. This will catch her attention. If you wait too long or she catches you staring it can make you look creepy and make her feel uncomfortable.

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When you go over, you want to introduce yourself and pull out an opening line, either an observational one or a compliment because that will help catch her attention. She will reply with her name and maybe a comment of her own. The next move is yours and you want to make sure that you keep the conversation flowing but also not to stay on the same topic so that it does not get stale.

A good way to start a conversation is to ask her questions. Start with something easy like asking what brought her out that night. It is not a job interview and you want to make sure that your questions are interesting enough to hold her attention. Every time she answers a question, comment on it. It is also important not to ask two questions in a row. You want to vary between questions and comments and even some of your own personal stories. Active listening involves asking questions, giving your own comments and also engaging with the other person. By touching her hand when you want her attention or asking for a high five, you are encouraging physical contact and will help her think of you physically. Active listening also involves engaging in your body language and even paying attention to hers.

Take Care of Yourself

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Do you notice that you feel better when things in your life are working out? It is pretty obvious that your life and the way you feel about it affects your confidence level and how other people view you. When you have got the weight of the world on your shoulders, your body shows it by affecting your energy levels, sex drive, and this is seen in your body language with slouching and looking at your feet when you talk to someone. When you are feeling depressed or stressed out, you are going to slouch more and shuffle your feet which do not exactly scream confident, strong, or self-assured. If you are unhappy with your life, it will carry over into your interactions with people and your relationships.

Make changes to improve yourself and your life. If you hate your job, consider getting a new one or change your outlook on your job by thinking of things that you like about it. Not everyone is happy all the time but you want to be content with your life and where it is going.

Improve your life and be more confident by eating healthy. Junk food, empty calories, and food that are rich in bad fats all affect your mood, energy level, and stamina as well as making bloated and uncomfortable. When you go through a detox you will really see the difference in your quality of life. If you want to attract women, it starts with eating right. Make sure that you cut down takeout and fast food meals to once a week and cut down on sugar as well. Make sure that your diet is rich in fruits, vegetables, and dark greens for a boost of energy. This will also help you get rid of any kind of extra weight that you might feel self-conscious about and stop after-dinner bloating. You will feel a lot better and this will make you happier. In addition to diet, you will also want to start doing some physical activity. This is especially important if your job requires you to be sedentary or involves little or no movement. Going to the gym or for a run at least three times a week can really help you out. If you are insecure about certain things about your body, most women will not notice this unless you point it out. Since women's attraction happens mentally as well as physically, the more that she likes you, the less she will notice imperfections. If you want to attract women, you will need to work on impressing her with your verbal skills and intelligence.

When you feel confident with your physical side, it can definitely help you feel more confident. You do not need to have a six-pack and zero percent body fat to attract women but making the right choices in your lifestyle or improving your physical appearance will make you feel more confident and comfortable. Start by getting a haircut which can help you feel like a new more confident person. Bring a photo to your barber or discuss what kind of impression you want to make before you sit in the barber chair. If you are worried about getting a bad haircut, just keep it simple and do not do anything too drastic like dyeing it or shaving your head. Most women notice hair and shoes on men first. Choosing the right pair of shoes to match your outfit and taking the time to fix your hair can make all the difference when you are trying to attract women. Nobody wants to date someone with dirty sneakers with holes in them or greasy-looking hair because it gives the impression that you are sloppy and lazy. If you are dressed more casually, then you want to make sure that your shoes are also casual. Also, make sure that your clothes are clean with no rips, stains, or wrinkles. This will also help you make a good impression on a woman that you met through online dating sites.

Talk the Talk

Have you ever heard the adage "fake it 'till you make it"? The mind is very powerful and if you believe in something hard enough, it can help make it come true. Being confident is essential to hookup dating and there are tons of dating tips that can teach you how to be more confident. If you feel self-conscious, start your day by doing some positive affirmations. These are phrases that are self-compliments that you say to yourself in the mirror. If there are negative things about yourself, you can change it in a positive statement to use as an affirmation. For instance, if you are shy, then you might think of yourself as better on one-on-one conversations with excellent observation skills. Observation skills are very important when you are talking to women. Start every day by reminding yourself of all the things that you like yourself. Sometimes people can get too bogged down in negative thinking and this makes you unhappier and affects the way people see you. When you're happy and positive, people can sense that about you. Eventually, when you say it enough, you will internalize it and eventually it will become second nature to you.

When you want to attract a woman, you need to change your body language and even the tone of your voice. When you are talking to a woman that you are attracted to, make sure to talk slower and deeper than you normally do. Women are proven to react positively to men whose voices are slower and deeper so practice this at home until it becomes second nature to you. Present yourself as confident by standing up straight but also adding a little lean as if you are being drawn to her. You never want to hover or push into her personal space unless she invites you first either by moving closer to you or touching you intimately. Also when you are approaching a woman, always approach her from the front or side. If you come up to her from behind, it can put her on the defensive and that will be a hard thing to work through.

Mix it Up

When you are looking to make yourself more attractive to women, variation is the key. You want to keep her on her toes and leave her wanting more. You want to make sure that she will be willing to chase after you for a bit and that she wants to see more of you. Making sure that she is not getting bored and that you are holding her attention while encouraging her to get to know you better is essential. If you are initiating conversation, make sure to leave room for her to respond to you. Vary your topics and techniques from questions, comments, and touching. Switching things up adds an element of mystery and surprise to the encounter.

This is also true for physical contact and body language. Physical contact should start with something easy like touching hands and then slowly escalate. Beware of over-touching or too familiar contact, which can be irritating and invasive. Once you notice that she is responding positively to that kind of touch, lingering longer and longer, then you can move a little closer to her. Do what feels natural but make sure that she is not feeling uncomfortable. Alternating between touching her hand, her leg, and even giving her a side hug will help her get comfortable with different kinds of physical contact.

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