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How To Use A Vibrator

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Pick a vibrator that is the right size for you. There are a lot of vibrators on the market, including anal dildos and double-ended vibrators. Use only lubrication designed for use with vibrators. Stimulate your clitoris, outer lips, and deep inside your vagina, until you find the technique that is right for you, and you will soon be having amazing orgasms. Play around with your partner until you find a way to use it as a shared experience, or just go solo. Continue to read the article for more details!

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Do I Need A Vibrator?

To be honest, every woman should own at least one vibrator. It used to be seen as a bit of a taboo to have a vibrator, as though even owning one was an admission that your sex life was not as good as it should be, but all of that has changed in more modern times. Now, to have a vibrator is a normal thing for a woman to admit to, and in fact, most women are proud to own one, and talking about them is not seen as something to shy away from. If you are new to the world of dildos and sex toys in general, let us be the first to tell you that to own a vibrator is normal, good, healthy, and a lot of fun!

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How To Pick The Right Vibrator

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You may not know quite how big a dildo you will need, so you can either go to a shop and have them make an informed guess for you based on your body size, or you can measure your guy's penis if he is the right fit for you. If he is too small, go for a bigger dildo. If he is too big, try something a little smaller. You can start small if you do not have a clue at all about what size you would like -- you can always get a bigger one later. Some girls find that starting with a big dildo can be painful, but if you are a size queen by all means go large. Remember that you can have more than one dildo in your little tool kit of pleasures! Shop online, or try a high street store if you want that personal touch.

Best Positions For Using A Vibrator

One of the best things about dildos is that you can get ones quite easily that have suction cups that will adhere to most smooth surfaces. This means that you can stick it to a wall and have sex standing up, at any height or angle. You can stick it to the floor and grind down on it good and hard, or you can stick it to a table. Do you have floor to ceiling windows? Why not put on a display for your neighbors if you live in a high rise which affords you some anonymity and if you are that way inclined. You can also use a dildo with your partner -- you can use it on a guy if you use a strap-on (this is called pegging,) or you can DP yourself while he has sex with you, filling both holes at once, or pleasure your clit while he has sex with you vaginally -- always a good combination!

How To Have An Orgasm Using A Vibrator

There are two main ways for a woman to have an orgasm - clitorally, and vaginally. The clitoris is the most obvious, and let's be real here, it is the easiest as well. You can get off by grinding, or by flicking your clitoris either during sex or apart. The other way is vaginally, and here we are talking largely about the g-spot, which is very far from being a fable -- g-spot orgasms are real, and all women can have one. To give yourself a clitoral orgasm using a dildo, rub the toy around your vagina first to get yourself stimulated. Once your vaginal lips are swollen and your vagina is wet, slip the vibrator inside a few inches -- just enough to really excite you. Then pull out and begin to rub your clitoris with the vibrating head of the dildo. Keep going, and alternate between vaginal pleasure and the rubbing of the clitoris, which by now should be a swollen and very sensitive little bud. After a while you will almost certainly have an orgasm. To give yourself a vaginal orgasm, you may want to use a dildo with a suction cup so that ou can really grind down on it. Hit up the spongey spot on the upper wall of the vagina, just a few inches inside, or two knuckles if you want to locate it with your fingers first. This may make you want to pee, but work through it. Son you will find yourself experience the most intense pleasure. Keep going until you find yourself having an amazing squirting orgasm. You can also combine the two, by stimulating yourself externally and internally -- there are even styles of vibrator that do both at the same time, so hunt the out! They are well worth the money.

How To Use A Vibrator With A Partner

Chances are, your partner, if he is a man, sometimes gets a case of limp dick. That is just fine, and let's face it, all guys lose their hard on after they come anyway. So what happens when your fella shoots his load before you have managed to get your rocks off? The answer: get out your vibrator! He will love to watch you having solo sex as you give yourself a great shuddering orgasm to rival any that he has ever given you. Show him how it is really done with a one woman show to leave him obsessed with you.

Ten Best Things About Using A Vibrator

1. It can't lose its erection. The truly great thing about a dildo is that it never goes limp, and it is ready to go again as soon as you are. Want five hour long sex sessions that give you orgasm on top of orgasm? Get yourself a sex toy and get down to it, girl.

2. It never talks back.

3. You can direct it just where you want it to go. Being able to have total control over where your new pal goes is great -- it means you can hit up the g-spot and the a-spot with absolute zero instructions down. The joy about this is that you can give yourself endless orgasms without having to say a word -- except the ones you don't mean to moan out loud, of course.

4. You can really grind down on a vibrator. Get on with a suction cup, slap it down on any smooth surface, and get grinding. Get it all the way up inside you and get ready for shuddering orgasms that a man could never give you -- unless he is Superman.

5. Swap burgers and home cooking for a pair of batteries. It is so much easier to fuel a dildo than a man...

6. You can have multiple orgasms. The sex sessions can last for as long as you have the stamina. Unlike a flesh and blood penis, a dildo never gets tired.

7. You get to enjoy positions that are just not possible with a guy. For instance, you can squat right down on a dildo, right on the floor, and really grind down on it, for as long as you like.

8. You can use them in the shower. OK, be careful here, because it is very dangerous to get water inside your vagina, but shower sex can get a whole lot more fun when you use a dildo with a suction cup that can stick on to the wall of the shower. It doesn't have issues with blood pressure, either, which is even better, as it means that it won't lose its erection like a guy can!

9. You can film yourself. The great thing about sex with a dildo is that it does not get camera shy. You can film yourself having sex with a vibrator as much as you like, with the added bonus of being able to get some really great camera shots. Try sitting on a glass table with your pal stuck to the top, and film through the glass. This will give you a really close up view of your vagina or anus being penetrated that you will not be able to get any other way. This is great if you are a pro cam girl, or if you want to send a video to a partner to tease him or her and show them what they are missing out on!

10. Dildos do not get jealous. That's right, you can have sex with a guy, a girl, two guys, two girls, whatever you want, and a dildo will always be there. It won't rush out, pout, or get in a fight with you or anyone else. The great thing about having a dildo is that you will have a sex partner that is inclusive of everybody -- if only flesh and blood sex partners were that easy going!

Things To Avoid When Using A Vibrator

Try not to get too wild because you can bruise yourself internally. this is most true when using the really big dildos that looks like part of the anatomy of a different species of mammal altogether. Also, make sure that you wash the thing! You have bacteria, and they can grow on the dildo and reach horrid levels of ickiness that you most certainly will not want inside of you. Also, use proper lube and not Vaseline or other petroleum jelly based lubes. Vaseline and like products will actually eat away at the silicone of the dildo, and will also be a breeding ground for bacteria; they are also a real pain to wash off. Stick to products that are designed for use with vibrators instead and you will have nothing to worry about.

Is It OK To Have More Than One Vibrator?

Yes, of course! In fact, most women have more than one vibrator. You can get a different vibrator for every day of the week if you so desire. One of the very best things about having more than one dildo is that you can use more than one at a time. You can get really great butt plug dildos that go really well with the regular kind. You can also get love beads, which work in much the same way. Then there are the Rampant Rabbit style dildos that can pleasure the clitoris at the same time as giving deep vaginal joy. Whatever you choose, you can have so much fun with a collection of vibrators that you will want to use again and again!

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Carry on reading to learn about having sex with a vibrator, with our easysex.com guide from the sex advice experts! From solo to shared, we have the tips!

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