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Fetster.com Fetish Dating Site Review

Item: Fetster.com Fetish Dating Site Review
Rating: 10
Author: Easy Sex

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INTRODUCTION:

Bored with traditional dating sites, I've begun recently to branch out a little bit, and experiment with different types of dating and hookup sites. I've tried out a lot of different flavors at this point, but I still hadn't really dabbled in the world of BDSM play yet. I figured it was as good a time as any to give it a shot, so I did a quick Google search to find out what the top fetish dating sites were, and the one that sounded like the best dating site was Fetster.com.

My most recent dating sites have been app-based sites, so using the desktop version of Fetster.com felt like a bit of a throwback, even though there were so many parts of the experience that were going to be completely fresh and exciting for me.

I was happy to see that the site had a community that encouraged members to talk about BDSM with each other, because since I didn't have much experience aside from a bit of light spanking, I didn't want to go out with anyone who had the expectation that I was an old pro, ready to be dominated for an entire weekend. The community allowed me to talk to other members about my concerns (and excitement). I felt more comfortable than I expected to, right away.

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ABOUT:

The first thing that struck me about Fetster.com beyond the strength of its community was the fact that it's setup less like your typical dating site, and more like a social network. Think Facebook, or Friendster (which I have a suspicion might be the social media dinosaur that the site was named after). It feels a little strange (but in a good way) to have something akin to a social media network that we use every day of our lives with our real names, sharing about our real lives, but in this case, almost every member has a username that conceals their identity, and the discussion topics are almost all frank sex talk. Sure, there's a forum where you can talk about what new album you've been loving, or what happened on last night's episode of Celebrity Big Brother just like on Facebook, but for the most part, the conversations are not for polite company. It's fantastic.

There are so many creative and sexy user photos that have clearly ben worked very hard on, and almost all of the bios are straightforward in regards to experience levels, what they're looking for sexually, and what their boundaries. Why is this so hard for your run of the mill dating and hookup site memberships to handle? You'll find no games (that you don't agree to) here.

With lots of different sections that allow members to explore the fetish world at their own pace, and based on their own interests, Fetster.com is quite robust.

FEATURES:

-Quick and easy sign-up for new members

-Fetster membership is free, and the site claims that it will stay that way forever

-Useful glossary for beginners to the fetish community

-Separate sections of the site for a broad scope of kinks like Discipline, Cuckolding, Foot Worship, Discipline, Rope Play, Pegging, Spanking, and Pet Play

-Members have the ability to clearly mark down what types of fetish play they're interested n, and which ones they're not

-Discussion forums make the site a great spot to spend a night chatting with other members of the BDSM community, without any pressure of having to go out with them

-Impressive site security means that your identity is always secure unless you decide to share it with someone

-Simple site design means that it's easy to navigate and use for everyone, so it's a very welcoming community of fetishists

-Thousands of groups allow members to find exactly what it is they're looking to discuss, and then chat about it with likeminded people

-Users can create their own groups if they aren't able to find exactly what they're looking for

-A powerful search engine that allows users to find hot and ready singles faster and more accurately than most other dating and hookup sites on the internet

-Send or receive gifts with other members if you think things are going well and you want to treat them with a surprise present

-Members are able to share both photos and videos with other members of the community, either privately, in blog posts, or in their prorfiles

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CONCLUSION:

I just realized that I haven't really talked that much about the dates and hookups on Fester.com because I've been so over the moon for the community. The couple hookups that I've had so far have been top shelf though, and I'm incredibly excited to continue using the site.

Without question, you should join Fetster.com immediately. There are other fetish dating sites that are perhaps comparable (you can check out more fetish dating site reviews on EasySex.com here), but the level of experience in BDSM and the hotness of the site's membership are going to be really hard for me to beat. I'm confident that you'll agree with me within a couple minutes of browsing the pictures of the singles in your area.

I've spent full nights just chatting with other members in the group chat sections of the site, which has surprisingly been just as rewarding as going out on a date sometimes. The knowledge share that happens within the community has definitely improved my sex game, and I can tell just based on how much my sex drive has increased from feeling like I'm a part of the scene that I've always been meant to be a part of, but was foolishly shy or embarrassed by it. Not anymore though!

Some of the other sites that I'd say are similar are also pay sites, so take advantage of the free membership that Fetster.com offers. Quality free sites are becoming harder and harder to come by every day.

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Pros

This is a top notch BDSM dating site. I'll say that at the top. The community that Fetster.com has built is a truly impressive one. There's something on the site for just about everyone, and the site offers a lot of neat little tweaks on your standard dating site, that really improve the user experience.
  
The interface is so user friendly that just about anyone can navigate the site with relative ease. This is great since so much knowledge is held by older members of the BDSM community, and their presence in the community is esssential for a future scene that maintains its history, and all of its tips, tricks, and tools of the trade. The mixing of young and old is great to see.
  
The emphasis on conversation while not completely abandoning the image and video parts of what make a social media site and dating site (since it's both) is well-balanced.
  
The gift giving option is a nice function for when you want to let someone know you're thinking of them. It's also a great tool for dominatrixes to use, and make their slaves send them gifts.
  
The ability to send as many messages to other users as you want is great because so many dating sites try to charge users for messages past a certain number.
  
The user blogs are among the best resources I've ever read about BDSM, and how to incorporate it not just into your dating and sex life, but also your day to day normal life.

Cons

I've had such a great time in my first experiences on Fetster.com, that even though I know I have to point out a few negative things about it, I really don't want to because they're relatively small things that aren't ruining my experience. At the end of the day, the site's most important elements are the community, exchange of information, and of course the sex and BDSM play. None of my complaints are stopping me from taking advantage of and having a blast doing those things.
  
The site's deign is very user friendly, which I previously mentioned, allows for members of the community of all ages to use the site, but visually it leaves a lot to be desired. Not all of the site, but certain pages definitely look like they were designed by someone who has never made a website before. Thankfully all of the hot user photos and videos are good enough quality to distract the user from the relative shoddiness of the rest of the visual aesthetic.
  
The copywriting on the website could use an editor. Nothing so bad that I would avoid it, but if it weren't a free site, it would probably give me pause about giving them my credit card number. As it is however, it's one of the best dating sites I've ever been on. That it's a fetish site is an extra bonus that has really opened my eyes to the size of the community. So unless your friends call you the grammar police, you'll be fine.