The Very Best NYC Sex Clubs And Parties

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NYC Sex Club Ideas

We love New York City because it's unapologetic, grimy, and yet completely glamorous. It's one of those cities that every kid dreams of moving to so they can "make it big." Because of this, the NYC sex club scene is just as adventurous, exciting and hardcore. This may be the only city in the world where you can attend grungy underground punk BDSM parties as well as upscale boudoir events. And the best part is: everyone is welcome at both. We hope you never change, NYC!

History Of Sex Club Scene In NYC

Like many other US cities, the sex club scene in NYC got its start at the turn of the century. Prohibition in NYC inspire a lot of clubs. Since there wasn't anything to drink, people had to find other ways to entertain themselves! It was in the 80s and 90s that the BDSM and gay scene really took over in NYC. to this day, some of the kinkiest BDSM dungeons are found in the heart of NYC. Exclusive and elite parties have also risen in popularity as more and more people with means move to the city. Regardless, NYC will never forget it's grungy and punk rock roots!

Best Times And Days To Go Out In NYC

Honestly? There isn't a bad time to go out in NYC! Seriously! They call it "the city that never sleeps" for a reason and that goes for the sex clubs and parties as well. However one night that is a bit more popular than the others is, of course, Saturday.

Sex Club Ideas: Directory

Here at EasySex, one of our fave cities in the US is NYC. We love it for the incredible sex scene and have compiled the very best of that scene for you to explore. Check it out below!

NYC Sex Clubs

Out of all of the sex clubs we've covered, some of our absolute favorites are in NYC. And what makes an NYC sex club so special? They're luxurious yet relaxed, completely uninhibited, and really delve deep into the darkest parts of the fetish and lifestyle scene. Basically they don't hold back!

SNCTM

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Addresses vary depending on event and only available to members.

Website

SNCTM

Any Notes

Must apply for membership and follow all membership rules.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

SNCTM is an elite members only club located in Los Angeles, NYC and worldwide. It's more than a sex club: it's an experience. They also offer luxurious and sexy performances for the society to watch and engage with. Once your membership is approved, you will have the option to attend SNCTM soirees. The soirees vary in type. There is a Masquerade, where members are dressed to the nines and wearing a mask. It's the ultimate sensual experience. SNCTM also hosts private dinners, training classes, and pool parties. SNCTM is an experience you won't soon forget.

Bowery Bliss

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Membership Approval

Website

Bowery Bliss

Any Notes

Club opened Tuesdays through Saturdays, with extended hours on the weekends.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Bowery Bliss is a lifestyle club located in the heart of downtown Manhattan. Since opening, it's quickly become a staple for those in the city who are looking to explore their kinks and fetishes. In order to become a member, you must first fill out a reservation form and then attend your first event. As long as you follow the club rules, you will be granted a permanent membership. Bowery Bliss hosts weekly events, most for couples and single females but there are also regular events that single males can attend too. It's BYOB at this club, but that's alright because they take care of everything else your heart could desire!

Killing Kittens

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Addresses Available Upon Membership Approval

Website

Killing Kittens

Any Notes

Membership available in the UK, USA, Australia, Canada, and more.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Killing Kittens is an exclusive worldwide club that caters to discerning people looking to experience the swinging and BDSM lifestyle. Even if you don't live in one of the cities where Killing Kittens hosts parties, you can still join their online community, The Litter Box. In order to attend events, you must be approved for the KK Club via a membership. Once approved you will have access to some of the most sublime and luxurious sex parties in the entire world. If you're over 45 you can join the Silver Club and explore your deepest fantasies with other Silver Club members.

Skirt Club

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Addresses Available Once Membership Is Approved

Website

Skirt Club

Any Notes

Must be 18 years or older; women only.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Skirt Club is a unique club in that it is for women only. That's right! If you've been fantasizing about exploring your bisexual side, this is the club to do it in. Skirt Club is all about women exploring their own desires and passions without having men around. It's entirely freeing and liberating! Once you become a member, you'll have access to member meet-ups in cites across the globe, including NYC. Skirt Club is the ultimate sensual haven for women! Rest assured you will be absolutely respected at this club.

Paddles NYC

Type

Members Only Club

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

250 W 26th St, NYC, New York 10001

Website

Paddles NYC

Any Notes

Must be 18 or older; open every Friday and Saturday; doors at 10pm.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Paddles NYC is one of the most established BDSM clubs in NYC. They've been supplying members with a place to get their kink on for over 23 years and they have no intention of stopping anytime soon! Paddles NYC is all about creating a safe and fun environment to explore the BDSM lifestyle. Whether you're alone or with a group, you'll be welcome at Paddles! On Fridays, the first 50 women there receive a free paddle so definitely get there early!

NYC Sex Events

Like the clubs, sex events in NYC are not to be missed. No matter what part of the city you are in, you can always find something going on to satisfy your kinks and cravings! Check out some of the top ones below:

House of Scorpio

Type

Private Events

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Approval

Website

House of Scorpio

Any Notes

21 and over; no refunds.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

House of Scorpio hosts monthly events designed for pansexuals to get loose and have fun. They are a welcoming event and open their arms to people from all gender and sexual identities. The events are piles of fun and often included guided games and other forms of play. Every second Friday, House of Scorpio hosts a kissing and makeup party called Lip Service, where the focus is all on foreplay and feeling good. Creative and flirty outfits are encouraged! Every fourth Saturday of the month is a play party called Countdown, which start off as a makeup party and then at the stroke of midnight the door is locked and all restrictions are lifted. Fun!

Club Labyrinth

Type

Private Events

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Approval

Website

Club Labyrinth

Any Notes

BYOB; snacks are provided; Open Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Labyrinth is another established swingers club in NYC that hosts weekly events. The events are designed specifically for an adventurous, no holds barred adult who is looking of a little extra kink in their lifestyle. Whether you're an exhibitionist or a voyeur, you will be welcome with open arms at Club Labyrinth! The special events vary depending on the month but their staple events are XXXTreme Mondays, Cock and Bull Wednesdays, GGG Thursdays, Freaky Fridays, and Swinging Kink Saturdays.

The Wink

Type

Private Events

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Various Addresses; available upon request

Website

The Wink

Any Notes

Access to list with various sex related NYC events.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

The best and most exclusive list of kinky and sex-positive and lifestyle events that you can get your hands on in NYC is The Wink. The owner of said list is shrouded in mystery but it is said that they are one of the founders of the BDSM scene in NYC. Regardless, they are in the know as they seriously know EVERY event that is happening in the city. Even long-time lifestyle members will see parties they hadn't even heard of on this list!

Swingers & Erotic Events in NYC

Type

Private Events

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Addresses Available Upon Request

Website

Swingers & Erotic Events in NYC

Any Notes

Private group that hosts regular events.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

The Swingers & Erotic Events in NYC Group is a vibrant group of New Yorkers who value friendly, open-minded, responsible, and respectful swinging events. Members range from those who have been into the lifestyle for years and those who are just attending their first swinging event; no matter where you are in life you will find your tribe at their events! The parties vary in location and host. Many members take turn hosting events. You'll always have a fun and sexy time with this group!

NYC Sex Parties

Sometimes you want a little more than a regular party. If you've never been to a sex party in NYC, you seriously don't know what you're missing out on. They are some of the most fun and exhilarating parties you can attend! Here are our top choices:

Intimate Party

Type

Private Parties

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Request

Website

Intimate Party

Any Notes

Must be 18 or over; once membership is approved, you will be able to purchase party tickets online.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Intimate Party host regular parties for their members. The parties are a sensual and erotic celebration of openness and trust, with plenty of kink and fantasy tossed in for good measure. The parties are intimate and generally never go over 40 guests. It is BYOB, but the party does provide condoms and wipes for cleaning your toys or yourself. The atmosphere is casual and incredibly sensual. Many members of the lifestyle community say that an Intimate Party is their fave lifestyle party.

Submit Party

Type

Private Parties

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Request

Website

Submit Party

Any Notes

Women and trans folks only; party held once a month on a Friday.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Submit Party is a safe and inclusive party designed specifically for women and trans folks to come and explore their fetishes. The parties range in size, from between 50 to 100 guests. The space includes large open areas, hideaways, private rooms, cubby holes, beds, and bondage equipment. No matter what you are into, whether it's voyeurism, BDSM, or plain old Vanilla Lovers, you will be welcome at Submit Party. It's one of the sexiest parties in NYC!

Chemistry NYC

Type

Private Parties

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

Address Available Upon Approval

Website

Chemistry NYC

Any Notes

18 and over only; ID required for entry.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Chemistry NYC aims to offer an enlightened and spiritual approach to sexuality. Chemistry is mostly devoted to women and their partners, however at times single men are invited (but only if the women members want it, which sounds like our kind of party if you ask us!). The guest list for Chemistry is exclusive and the approval process is lengthy but it's worth it to attend their absolutely incredible parties. They are a life changing, erotic experience. You will explore new boundaries and spiritual planes you never thought possible!

NYC Bathhouses

One of the best experiences that NYC has to offer is bathhouses. Why? Because there is nothing better than sitting in a super hot sauna, getting all sweaty and relaxed. And NYC saunas and bathhouses are some of the best around! Below are the best of the best:

West Side Club NYC

Type

Bathhouse

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

27 West 20th Street, NYC, New York 10011

Website

West Side Club NYC

Any Notes

Open 24/7, 354 days a year; men only.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

West Club NYC is one of the most established and premiere bathhouses in NYC for gay and bisexual men. They've been around for over 20 years and are still going strong so you know that they are professionals at what they are doing! At West Side Club you can relax in one of their lounges, grab a sauna or shower (either alone or with a friend... or two), or socialize with other club members. It's an absolute treat, especially after a long day or week at work. West Side Club is the perfect place to unwind! Membership types vary but we have a feeling after one visit you'll be wanting to go back.

East Side Club NYC

Type

Bathhouse

Space

Private Rooms and Common Areas

Crowd

Young to Mature Adults

Address

227 East 56th Street, NYC, New York 10022

Website

East Side Club NYC

Any Notes

Open 24//7, 365 days of the year; men only.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

East Side Club NYC is the counterpart to West Side Club NYC. You'l find the same great atmosphere and experience, just on the other side of the city! At East Side Club NYC you can also relax in their lounge, grab a sauna or shower, or socialize with other members. They offer similar facilities however, just like the East and West side of NYC have a different feel, so do East Side Club and West Side Club. Many members frequent both clubs because they enjoy the different vibes at each! We could never pick one over the other. They are both a great and sweaty sauna experience.

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With this incredible list of NYC sex clubs, parties, events, and bathhouses you likely won't be finding yourself bored with nothing to do in the city anytime soon! But don't worry, if you want to check out even more sexy things in NYC, we've got you covered with another list right here! And if you're looking for a different pace, why not travel south to Tampa to check out their scene? It's incredible there!